Until the past twenty-five years, the world did not recognize the dangerous impact and the frequency of sexual abuse. There is little discussion in earlier halakhic sources about sexual abuse. Rape is mentioned in the Torah, and, as with other prohibited sexual behaviors, the precise criteria to define an act as rape can be found. […]
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I. It is good to give tzedaka before morning prayers. With lighter pockets, prayers rise higher. It is good to give tzedaka before fasting. With another’s hunger filled, ours becomes more holy. It is good to give tzedaka before Shabbat. The candles will glow more warmly; our rest will be filled with joy. It is
The history of Orthodox women’s organizations in America is as old as Orthodox settlement on these shores. The earliest groups were created as auxiliaries, sisterhoods, and benevolent societies of synagogues and religious schools for boys. Yet, their work went far beyond service to their host-and primarily male-institutions. The women’s groups modeled themselves on the chesed
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People want our tzedaka dollars. We are all deluged by solicitations, whether through phone calls, online requests, mailed letters, or even directly by sh’lichim, supplicants, on our doorsteps. At s’machot, conferences, lectures, and other public events, we are solicited–sometimes almost tackled–by friends, acquaintances, family members, and even people we do not know. What should we
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Having just gone through a season of giving, I suppose it may be impolitic to point out that the Torah never commands us to give money to the poor. Instead, there are numerous adjurations to lend money to those in need. The assumption throughout is that the money will be repaid. Other laws delineate gifts
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Serious Jews of both genders consider it their responsibility to be charitable. Our tradition has much to say about the philosophy of tzedaka, from the personal to the institutional and from the demonstration of compassion to the expression of patronage. Given the ubiquity of tzedaka requests in our lives, it seems important for us to
Allocating One’s Tzedaka: Some Thoughts on Giving Read More »
Although Tisha B’Av is a day of great mourning, tradition nevertheless associated with it an element of consolation. There is embedded in the destruction the hope of future redemption. A famous story in Tractate Makkot (24b) tells of Rabbi Akiva laughing as he walked through the ruins of Jerusalem while his friends were all weeping
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As a student in an Orthodox day school, I often heard the story of Nahum Ish Gamzu, who responded to the tragedies he suffered with the phrase, “Gam zo l’tovah–this, too, is actually a good thing.”1 We were told, through this story and others, that true faith in God should lead us each to look
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There are many stories of how life is woven, how life is threaded, how wearing strings or connecting the dotsthrough the generations can – and may – reveal the truth about life. There are also many stories, many significant points in history that do not deserve to be interpreted as a stitching of a thread.
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The way that tzniut, modesty, is presented to girls in schools is critical to how it is perceived by them. There seem to be two general approaches. One is inner-directed, making modesty a matter of self-respect: it does not behoove a female to disrespect the holiness of her body by dressing inappropriately. The second approach
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