Why do Jewish Women Still Need to Demand Equality?

Tue, 05/07/2013 - 3:12pm -- JOFA

By Sharon Shenhav

At the KnessetWe are well into the 21st Century and Jewish women are not only the majority of the Jewish people, they are highly educated, articulate and well organized. So why haven't they achieved equality

The international Council of Jewish Women, an umbrella organization with affiliates in 43 countries, held a demonstration at the Knesset on Sunday, entitled "Jewish Women Worldwide Demand Equality". Dressed in white and carrying placards with the flags of over 20 countries, women from the US, UK, Israel, France, Switzerland, Belgium, Australia, South Africa, Canada, Columbia, Uruguay, Slovakia, Croatia, stood silently, but powerfully. They reminded us that despite the remarkable progress made by women in the "Feminist Revolution" of the past 50 years, women in general and Jewish women in particular, still suffer from inequality in almost every area of contemporary life

Decision making in government is still dominated almost entirely by men. Yes, the recent elections in Israel have resulted in the largest number of female MK's serving in the Knesset, but that number is 27. Certainly not 50% and therefore not even close to equality. Several female ministers are holding important portfolios, but the cabinet is clearly male dominated and decision making at the highest levels of government is controlled by men.

Economic equality, as recently shown in several studies, does not exist. Women earn more than 30% less than men, even when they hold executive positions. This inequality exists despite the fact that in Israel women are more highly educated than men. Somehow, the academic achievement of Jewish women does not translated into economic equality. While this economic inequality is found in the public as well as private sectors, it is particularly existent in Jewish communal organizations worldwide. Jewish women are rarely hired as CEO's of major Jewish organizations, and when they do break through that glass ceiling they are paid less than their male colleagues.

Religious inequality is perhaps the most glaring and painful form of inequality. The Jewish divorce process is completely controlled by male Orthodox rabbis. We are all aware of the tragic and shameful existence of agunot, women trapped in an unwanted or non-existent marriage because their husbands refuse to give them a get or bill of divorcement. Women cannot be appointed as rabbinical court judges (dayanim) and the statutory Commission to Appoint Dayanim is currently unable to function because for the first time in almost two decades not even one woman has been appointed or elected to the Commission. Women's organizations petitioned the Supreme Court to rectify this situation and the case is pending. Legislation has been proposed which would guarantee three places on the 10 member commission to women and add another position which would be held for a woman. Even if this legislation should be passed, which is doubtful, women would still be in the minority on the Commission.

SignsWomen of the Wall have shown us that Jewish women are barred from praying according to their wishes, though Jewish men seem to be able to pray in any manner they choose. The shocking photos of women being arrested for wearing a tallit or carrying a Torah are a source of shame to the state of Israel and the Jewish religion worldwide. The recent Jerusalem District Court decision made it very clear that Jewish women have the right to pray as they wish at the Kotel and cannot be arrested for wearing a tallit. These heroic women will be celebrating Rosh Chodesh on Friday, May 10 and the world will be watching to see if those religious fanatics who attack the women will be arrested or allowed to continue their verbal and physical abuse unheeded by the authorities.

Domestic violence and other forms of violence against Jewish women continue to exist, despite good legislation and more robust enforcement of these laws by the criminal justice system. Almost weekly the media reports still another case of a woman murdered by her husband or partner. Rape continues to be a regular occurrence and Jewish women are not safe in their own homes. Trafficking of women is a worldwide problem and exists in every country.

Sexual harassment in the workplace seems to be rampant. The current spotlight is on the media with the case of Emanuel Rosen dominating the daily news. However, as Seth Frantzman pointed out in a recent article in this newspaper, the male dominated workplace has been much too tolerant of sexual harassment, whether it is in universities, government offices, private companies or the army. Women who complain to their superiors are likely to become ostracized and their careers will be shattered. If they file police complaints they will be considered as saboteurs.

Equality in the Jewish home is still unfulfilled. Even when a woman has succeeded in achieving a successful career, she returns home to take on the major role in child rearing, cooking, shopping, carpooling and cleaning. Her modern, liberal, educated husband or partner seems to be blind to the need for him to take on an equal share of the work at home.

Yes, despite a great deal of progress in the last 50 years, Jewish women have not yet achieved full equality. We should all be joining efforts to achieve this goal.

The writer is a Jerusalem based lawyer and Director of the International Jewish Women's Rights Project of the International Council of Jewish Women. She was the only woman who served two terms on the Commission to Appoint Dayanim as the elected representative of the Israel Bar Association from 2003-2009


Submitted by Yisrael (not verified) on
I won't debate you about arrests at the Kosel. It's pretty sickening. Same with the tznius patrols and the scenes on the buses regarding seating. But as for the Jewish home: look at it this way. Why are Jewish men alone tasked with supporting a family financially? This doesn't seem very fair. The women who want to work are much more free to choose a profession based on interest while the guys look for money to support their families. They suffer much more with work burdens. They can't get a date with a good parnasah and it must be better than her parnasah. She doesn't want to date a guy that makes less money than her. Meanwhile, the men at the same time are burdened with many more mitzvah duties. The most significant of them, Torah study, is used as an excuse not to teach them the job skills which they'll need to support their families! If the women are 'more educated' it's because they are allowed to be. Doesn't seem very fair. Why must men daven with a minyan three times a day when women have no such duty. Doesn't seem very fair. How would you like to keep 3 appointments every day, even when you are exhausted, hungry or would like to spend time with a friend. Doesn't seem very fair. The point is, we have different roles and each has what appear to be advantages. But you have to look honestly at the whole picture. As for divorce, why do women in the great majority of cases keep the kids. That's not fair. Women can refuse to accept gets and often do.

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